When you feel as if your relationship is going in the wrong direction, this could be because your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you. There are many signs that he is cheating on you and Xcheaters.com has made a list of the top 20. Let’s hope that you answer no to all of these in hopes that your relationship is safe.

1. The number one reason to tell that he is cheating is because he takes his telephone with him everywhere he goes. If he has to shower with his phone or even use the restroom with his phone, odds are that he is cheating on you. He has to be hiding something unless he is trying to surprise you and has gotten your friends involved.

2. He is starting to mix up all of his stories. He tells you that he’s going to watch a game with the guys, but then he tells you another story when he gets back.

3. He suddenly has quite a few more girlfriends than you know or have met. This could mean that he has been meeting the other woman’s friends.

4. He stops wanting to have sex with you. When you start feeling frisky, he pushes you away.

5. He turns things around on you. If you ask him a simple question, it turns defensive and into an argument. And now all of the blame is on you.

Research associated with Xcheaters.com has found many websites that help define the signs of cheating -- one of these websites is mydailymoment.com.

They suggest as the no. 6 sign that your man is cheating is the sudden change in his looks. He is either not shaving or taking care of himself like usual or he is getting dressed up to go out to the bar.

7. Also found on mydailymoment.com and suggests that when he is being too nice to you, it is also a sign. He starts buying you massage gifts or day spa getaways, he may be doing this so he can have the house to himself.

8. He becomes very critical of you. He looks at your outfits and says things like “you’re not going out like that are you?”

9. He cannot commit to any plans with you. He is constantly cancelling or having to work late.

10. The people he follows on Instagram or Twitter are all half-naked, really hot women.

11. He still has a Tinder account.

12. He still won’t let you meet his family. This is very important especially if the two of you have been dating for a while.

13. He has a lot of numbers in his phone that aren’t saved. You see random numbers text him all the time with no names attached.

14. When you pick up his phone to check the time, he freaks out on you.

15. You never know where he is.

16. He goes off the grid more than you would like.

17. He calls himself a loner even when you two have said you’re in a relationship.

18. You catch him in more and more lies every day.

19. He can never meet up with you when you’re out.

20. He is online more than usual. He is also Facebook chatting more than usual.