Dating very attractive women can be intimidating. You might not even have the courage to ask for a date. Maybe your friends are telling you she’s out of your league. At the same time, one does see instances where very ordinary men date extremely attractive women successfully. What are their secrets? Here’s what Askmen.com had to say.

Treat her as an intelligent person

A lot of guys are so dumbstruck by the sheer gorgeousness of their date that they fail to wonder about what’s going on inside that pretty head. Here’s some news for you, some really attractive women are also very intelligent and if you appear to recognise this, they might be more impressed than if you paid them a thousand other compliments.

Have some intelligence yourself

Women are more impressed by personality and intelligence than they are by looks. Who cares if you’re short and have spaghetti muscles? Your intellectual muscle might well win her over. There are plenty of examples and Salman Rushdie is a case in point. The author has dated a string of incredibly beautiful women, but he, himself is no oil painting!

Relax

Amazing! That gorgeous woman just spoke to you! Instead of turning into a heap of terrified jelly at the thought of being addressed by this goddess, relax. Talk to her as if she was an ordinary person (she is). Crack a joke. Beautiful women are so used to causing the ‘dumbstruck’ reaction that they’ll be perfectly thrilled about being treated like a normal person.

Be entertaining

By this, we don’t mean that you have to clown around all the time, but being the kind of guy who’s fun to be with could win you some absolutely stunning dates even if you look like Elmer Fudd. Everyone likes to have fun with someone who is fun company. It’s really not difficult!

Don’t try to get her into bed too soon

Let’s face it. She can get laid any time she wants. She’s with you because you’re fun, intelligent and so on. Don’t disappoint her by pushing for sex. You’ll know when the time is right and in the meanwhile she’ll respect you more for keeping your hands to yourself than she would if you tried to jump her.

Don’t keep on making an issue of her looks

Paying her a nice compliment is great, but everyone pays her compliments. Focus on her personality and her opinions and you’re giving her something very different from what she’s used to.

Approaching attractive women for a date can be quite intimidating. You may find that building up your confidence with sited where those gorgeous girls are really looking for a date helps to build your confidence. Keep it casual and meet some hot women on Flirthookup and Xcheaters – just for practice!