Q.  I had an affair (I'm married) with my ex, I want to see him again for some nsa sex, how long should I wait to contact him so I don't look desperate?

A.  How soon can you file for divorce? Tell your husband you want a divorce, go through the proper filing. If you have kids, wait a few months to get them used to the idea of you dating again. Then call your ex, free from the guilt of what you're doing to your husband. 

Come on. Seriously.

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