Online Dating: Ladies make first move, get upper hand


Traditionally, it is the men who have been seen to make the first move in any kind of dating. It was considered highly inappropriate for a lady to make the first move. Now women are allowed to make the first move and it is even better if a woman was the one who made that first move.

Many women still shy away from making the first move because they are either too shy or are afraid of what the other party will think of them. It comes as a relief to say that most of the men actually love it when the woman shows interest first.

Ladies, there are many advantages if you make the first move.

Consider the following reasons...

You will not miss out on a great opportunity. You may not make the first move waiting for the guy to make the first move only to find out that the guy is taken by another. You might even have made a great match but now you will have lost out on that chance.

When a woman makes the first move, then they will have a chance to go out with a guy that they like and not only a guy that has gotten in contact with them. This will save a lot of time that would have been otherwise spent on persons they did not like.

The probability of getting a guy who is serious is heightened if the lady makes the first move. This is because the lady is going to select a guy whom they have looked at the profile and liked it first hence heightening chances of getting a serious guy.

When a lady makes the first move, this helps to ease the work of a guy who may have been interested in them but they were too shy to show it.
This shows to the man that the woman is very confident about themselves.

When a woman makes the first move, this helps to send out a picture to the guy that they are very confident and love themselves.

When a lady makes the first move, the guy will have an easy time to pursue them and this will save both parties a lot of time especially if the guy is interested.

When a woman makes the first move, they will be able to better control how the relationship will be able to proceed to other stages.

When a woman makes the first move, it will help to clear out the questions of what if and any other questions.

It helps the woman not to be depressed wondering why no one has contacted them. It may be because most of the guys find her intimidating and this will clear out the air.

When a woman makes the first move, this will help her to get in contact with the guys that she has placed on the same level as she is and this will help to filter out the unwanted guys especially on free online dating.

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