“I think I am the only woman in Pakistan who ever had sex with a Black Cuban”, Saira Mir says in her book, My Sex Life in Paris. 

A lawsuit related to a sex affair is filed in the court in Lahore that carries some striking details... Saira Mir sets new trends in sex.

After Shehnaz Gul, Saira Mir is the first woman in Pakistan emerging as a sign of “libertine sex life” with the most explosive sex scandal in Pakistan’s history.

In 1970, the story of Shehnaz Gul and Mustafa Zaidi appeared in the Pakistani press like a storm. Mustafa Zaidi, a Civil Services officer and poet was found dead in mysterious circumstances.

Besides him, a beautiful Shehnaz Gul was also lying down in an unconscious state. An intensive investigation was conducted to find out whether Mustafa Zaidi committed suicide or Shehnaz Gul had murdered him? This affair emerged as the most explosive sex scandal in Pakistan.

Shehnaz Gul had made spicy comments on her sexual relations with Mustafa Zaidi. She had become the “femme fatale” of Pakistan. It is still considered a landmark case. But despite of all the striking elements associated with this affair, it was limited to the sexual relations between just two people… But the story of Saira Mir has crossed all the boundaries… Before coming to Lahore, Saira lived in Paris where she had a libertine sex life for more than 10 years. 

She participated in private sex parties and exclusives swingers’ clubs where partners were openly exchanged. She is well-recognized in all these circles. A BOOK THAT LED TO THE SECRET SEX LIVES OF A FORMER PRIME MINISTER, AND A CURRENT AMBASSADOR TO THE UNITED STATES:  The tales of this libertine lifestyle are recently published in an eBook titled, “My Sex Life in Paris” by Saira Mir.

There is a dispute about who wrote this book - but the relevant point to know the underlying facts is to investigate about the events & places portrayed in the book. A judicial and journalistic investigation can open up all the layers of this affair. Quite interestingly, this eBook was read by another woman who greatly appreciated this story. She was engaged in making research on the libertine lifestyle of high-profile women from this region.

She started the correspondence with the author of the book. She introduced this book to Sherry Rehman, current Pakistani Ambassador to the United States. These 2 women are very close friends, and they both have been close to Benazir Bhutto, former Prime Minister of Pakistan.

Sherry Rehman praised the book in her e-mail to the author, “Your book is reminiscent of Catherine Millet’s work, who incindentally happens to be a French art critic. It also reminds me of Mariyah Salih ‘s Harem Girl. You have a good erotic narrative. Such autobiographical literature could be a sign of liberated times. I feel this genre embodies and personifies a woman’s myriad desires”.  

The correspondence between the author and these two liberal women revealed another secret – and that was about the libertine sex lives of Sherry Rehman and Benazir Bhutto. Later on Sherry Rehman got little conscious and stopped this communication. She also told the other woman (who had forwarded the book and introduced the author to her) to stop all the communication in this regard.

This “INDECENT CORRESPONDENCE” carries some profound descriptions about women’s sexuality - and could be an interesting read.   While Shehnaz Gul the “femme fatale” of the 1970s openly made sexual comments like, “The stamina of Mustafa Zaidi was 55 minutes” (and this notion became the focal point of college boys’ conversation at that time) - Saira openly boosts in her book about her “highest score in a sex party - that has been 7 men…” With all these spicy ingredients, Saira Mir has emerged as a “new femme fatale” and a sign of libertine sex life - with the most explosive sex scandal in Pakistan’s history.                     

“Saira sexy” was the name given to Saira Mir in the libertine circles of Paris where sex with no taboos was the name of the game.   “Saira sexy has set the new trends in sex. She is breaking all the taboos. She is used to have multiple sexual partners. She had this lifestyle earlier in Paris - and now in Lahore…” Today these are the waves and vibes that revolve around Saira Mir.  

In Paris’ libertine circles, Saira sexy was known to have multiple sexual partners at a time. “One man is just to start the session. A team of sixsome is what makes the sex spicy”, Saira always commented in private sex parties. She is remembered for her wild sexual acts and bold views. Most of these encounters took place in Club Chris & Manu, Triangle, La Cheminée and in sex parties at Jacques home.

Her frequent sexual partners in Paris, Antonio, Thierry, Eric and Ivan have not forgotten their wild moments with this attractive woman. And to keep her spirit and memories alive, they have placed her photographs on the walls of the apartments where some exclusive sex parties were organized. Ivan has even suggested that Paris Erotic Museum should include in its collection some descriptions about “Saira sexy and her erotic life in Paris”. Perhaps that day is not far when Saira sexy/Saira Mir would be on display in Paris Sex Museum.  

Quite interestingly, Saira has also come across some prominent and high-profile people from Pakistan in the course of her wild sexual encounters. This part of the story is yet to be unfolded... 

My Sex Life in Paris was published on Smashwords, Lulu and Booksie.