When your sexual relationship is in trouble







When the chase has stopped, trouble smells: Women are socially and evolutionally wired in a way they will get over the thrill they get from being chased by their mates at their own pace. Without the feeling of being chased, her neurotransmitters responsible for her excitement, epinephrine and norepinephrine become very slowly and her libido becomes low too. As a result of this sex becomes dull for you as a couple. To make things interesting again, get physical.

 

According to a study at the University of California you can achieve more sex and stronger orgasm and build a closer relationship by making her exercise. Make her do exercise one hour a day, three times a week. Scientific America published findings of a research that says, these neurotransmitters are jumpstarted through physical exercise which will also increase flow of blood to her genitals and this will result in easier and frequent orgasms. If she can’t go to the gym, spank her.

 

A scientist at the Northern Illinois University says that when a woman is spanked, she gets a jolt of testosterone. Just make sure it’s not a slap on the face because the testosterone rush from this is not great.

Your sexual relationship is in trouble if the woman is aware of your moves. If she is used to the same everyday routine, you become predictable and her orgasms become less or even harder to achieve. All you have to do is start new relationships with your partner. According to Tracey Cox, a sex and relationship counselor and author of Sextasy, sex is not as great at first but later on it becomes better.

Another thing that results in trouble is negative cohabitation. A study by scientists from Harvard University shows that once you are coupled up with your partner, the levels of testosterone starts decreasing. This is the hormone that drives into impressing your partner. No worry about all this because seven minutes are enough to ignite the fire in her again. According to studies published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, for couples to feel closer to each other at this phase of their life, participating in fun activities that are novel will help a great deal, for example, come up with a quiz on anything and take the test but don’t get caught doing something else under the table because you will be in big trouble.

Her daily routine is another thing that may affect your sexual relationship. A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology shows that a relationship is most likely to pay the price if a woman is in a rut about her career. If she feels trapped in her daily routine, she will bring that boredom into the relationship and eventually start picking arguments with you as a way of creating some excitement. Try to make her relax by diverting the energy into yoga. According to a recently conducted study published in Qualitative Research in Psychology women are less bored if they participate in Ashtanga Yoga. She will learn to relax, be patient, stay calm and of course get a smoking hot body.

Another cause of trouble is if you are a man of few words. In the first few months of a relationship or marriage the couples normally talk after sex but only a third bother to maintain this routine after their first anniversary. This is according to a survey conducted by Women’s Health Magazine on 1,000 women.

 

Dr. Noelle Nelson who is the author of Your Man Is Wonderful says that, “It takes more than just a few years to know your partner. Growth and change takes place throughout the lives of human. Do not lose interest in getting to know what makes your woman tick because she will lose interest in you too.”

 

Tracey Cox says that; engage her in a talk after sex especially in her semi-sleepy state. Questions like ‘Have you ever…’ will be very helpful at this moment because you will find that as she gains the sexual confidence with time, her answers will vary as you continue asking the questions.

 

Make the same question romantic and sexy and don’t ask rude questions because you will get yourself in trouble.


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