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7 Ways To Have Phone Sex In A Long-Distance Relationship

Long distance relationships are never easy, as the lack of physical contact can be quite frustrating. Realizing that you can't watch that new movie with your partner or just cuddle on a cold night causes you to make some concessions.

Trust can become a major worry—particularly when intimacy is concerned—but phone sex on the other hand, offers a perfect means to keep the sexual intimacy booming strong. While conversations might not come naturally for first timers, with a few tips and few trials, you're bound to begin to explore the power of 'dirty' words to spice up your sex life irrespective of the distance.

1.  Fix a time that suits both of you

Privacy is very essential during phone sex, as you wouldn't want to be interrupted by a call from your mom or your nosey roommate barging in on you.

Make sure the time is perfect for you both, and be completely focused and available when the time arrives.

2.  Get in the mood

Prior to the phone sex session, ensure that you're already feeling sexy. You could try on a new lingerie or sexy costume of your choice; and while there may be no visuals, it'll help build your confidence.

Diming the lights, lighting some candles, and playing some romantic music could set the tone—even watching some porn, if that gets you in the mood.

3.  Utilize dirty words

Phone sex is all about the words, so be sure to choose the right "dirty" words. Stay away from words that are deemed insensitive by your partner, but if “vagina” makes you feel more like a gynecologist than “pussy”, you're welcome to use it.

Opt for raunchier words that'll make your partner feel sexy and heighten the pleasure.

4.  Engage in an actual conversation

Don't just begin bombarding your partner's ears with raunchy words right off the bat. Phone sex should be a conversation that builds up.

Take turns to discuss fantasies and what you'd do to your partner in a sexy manner—arousing each other with dirty words.

6. Masturbate and share the details

That's basically the essence of phone sex, arousing each other to the point of physical stimulation. But then, never forget to share details of the act with your partner.

Tell them exactly what you're doing, whether it’s rubbing your clit or stroking your dick.

6.  Be vocal with your orgasms

Phone sex is meant to strengthen the sexual aspect of relationships, and orgasms are usually a great way to end each session.

Never shy away from moaning and letting your partner know that you're about to cum. You can even spice it up a bit just to ensure that your partner knows that you've been having an awesome time.

7.  Repeat the process

Phone sex might feel awkward on the first try, but then practice makes perfect. It's important to make a routine out of it to ensure that you and your partner get accustomed to it, while also allaying initial discomforts.

This would help you have more natural conversations and heightened imaginations each time you phone sex with your partner.