Most everyone has had some form of phone sex in their lives, whether as teenagers, young adults, or even middle-aged. What differs is the extent to which most of us go with it. Whether it’s done in jest, light teasing, or perhaps more developed and intricate descriptions that exceed what we’d actually do in “real life”. Why we do it is another question.  It’s safe, and/or its fun, we’re bored, lonely, or just plain frustrated- either way we just want a little fun and excitement that strays from normal societal constraints. After all, a phone sex operator knows what the guy is calling for and neither he nor she expects the other to be there in the morning.

Before I started doing phone sex for pay, I would do it with boyfriends. In fact, I loved, when I was a teenage, before I even had sex, I would talk to random people online and “sext” (which wasn’t even a term at the time) or call them to have phone sex. I’d hang up the phone or click the close button of a chat window afterwards, never to talk to them again. I simply loved the idea that I was getting someone off, especially anonymously.

It’s often thought that people who are in the sex business harbor a deep-seeded reason as to why they do what they do. Now granted there are many people who this does apply to, but it’s not every person who takes their overtly sexual nature to theentertainment industry. There are strippers and porn stars for example, who were molested when younger and use sex as a way of dealing with their issues, and then there are those who weren’t and simply just love their job. Then of course you’ve got those who get paid so well that the reality of it doesn’t faze them a bit. That’s the category I fall into.

You may be wondering how I managed to get started in such an interesting field of work. Well, I moved to Las Vegas when I was 21 years old. Like most people who move on a whim and find themselves broke, I was in search of a second job to pay the bills. Shortly into my first year in Sin City, I decided to answer an ad for a “phone actress” position. As naive as I was at the time, I had absolutely no idea what it would entail.

It was a small ad in a free paper that read, “PHONE ACTRESS: Call and leave a message. If we like your voice, we will call you back.” I picked up the phone and dialed, and while my normal voice is not all that sexy, this mysterious other voice cameout of me as I left my message. This one was much more sultry and sexy. At the time I had but a vague idea as to what the job may entail. In fact, I honestly thought it was for some sort of acting gig, like for one of those automated phone numbers that call you. I always wanted to be an actress but didn’t have the looks to make it, so this seemed like a perfect fit forme.

The next day, to my amazement, I received a call back. I was floored. I told the woman that I had only personal experience with boyfriends, and I quickly changed my regular voice to the new sexy voice I discovered the night before. The job was quite simple and direct. Guys would call the company and be sent directly to my phone at the times I wasassignedtotakethem.AllIhadtodowaspickupthephoneanddowhateverittook to please them; and believe me many of these were hardly your average porn freaks.

I waited with excitement for the packet to arrive in my inbox, which came within minutes and included an application, direct deposit form, and confidentiality agreement. I printed them out, filled them out, and immediately headed to Kinko’s to fax it back.

I called later that night to sign on for my first shift, and ever so swiftly my career in the phone sex industry began.