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How to Pick Up Women

by Dr. Payton Kane, Featured Sexuality Columnist,


Dr. Payton Kane.

The Seduce & Conquer program that I have developed, teaches you how attract, meet, date and seduce the most beautiful women in the world.


It teaches you how to make every girl you meet fall madly in love with you.

# 1: Do Not Act Like the "Nice Guy"

Gentlemen, please understand that when it comes to attracting, meeting and seducing beautiful women, "nice guys" will always finish last. Women do not want to date a "nice guy." She wants be with a confident and cocky guy who has personality and lots of attitude. Nice guys are too easy for her and fall into that dreaded "friend" category. Women want a guy who is NOT easy and when you're the "nice guy", women automatically think you're easy.

Have you ever noticed that all the hot, sexy women out there never seem to be dating or attracted to a "nice guy?" and to make matters worse doesn't it seem like all these beautiful babes are dating guys that are jerks?

Better yet.

Have you ever noticed that it's always the girls that you are not interested in that are suddenly interested in you?


Exactly, because you were not interested in them and you were not trying to be overly nice or sweet to them.

Women don't like "nice" guys. They are all too easy for her. Beautiful women, gentlemen, want a challenge! Always remember that!

They want to be intrigued when they first meet you; they want to be kept on their toes,

They want a challenge.

You have to learn how to give her that challenge..

My researched 'Seduce & Conquer' programs teaches you how to give her the best challenge of her life so she's drawn right into you!

# 2: Don't Give Her a Compliment When You First Meet Her

What do most guys do the first time they meet a woman? Exactly they pay them a compliment or try to be the "sweet guy" The sweet guy is worse than the nice guy. Not only does it give her no challenge it actually turns her off from you. She will dislike you if you approach her and give her a compliment. Women don't want to hear compliments and they don't want to hear pick up lines. You will seem like a desperate loser in her mind because you are too interested in her and you're much too easy for her.


Because women live for the thrill of the chase, the second they know they can have you, they will not want you anymore. Compliments and pick up lines backfire in your face. She might smile and laugh but in the back of her mind she's laughing at you, not with you! It's all a game and you have to learn how to play it!

There are 3 phases to "the game"...

The First Phase - Begins when you first meet her...

The Second Phase - Begins right after you have sex with her...

The Third Phase - Begins when you get into a serious relationship with her...

Seduce & Conquer teaches you how to play "the game" and all its 3 phases so she falls head over heels for you!

# 3: Don't Sell Yourself to Her

Most guys meet a girl and realize that she's a little apprehensive and then, the first thing they do is try to convince the girl to feel comfortable around them and to like them. Never try to convince a woman to like you. If she's not attracted to you convincing her or persuading her to like you will turn her further away from you! Most guys meet a girl and try to SELL them the idea of being with him. Attraction cannot be sold gentlemen; it can be created but not sold. Don't try to convince women to like you.

The more you try to convince her, the less she will like you. Create the attraction you desire by being the opposite of what she expects!

Seduce & Conquer teaches you how to create attraction and how to leave a lasting impression on every girl you meet! It really is so easy!

# 4: Never Kiss Her Ass

A lot of guys make the huge mistake of kissing her ass or agreeing with everything she says when they first meet her. Women don't want you to kiss their ass, exactly the opposite. Remember kissing her ass or looking for her approval doesn't give her that challenge she desires. Women want a challenge and if you want her approval don't suck up to her and don't kiss her ass. Treat her like shit, put her down and do it with style and you'll get that approval!

I know it sounds hard and cruel but if you want to be a success with women you cannot kiss her ass and you can not agree with everything she says. You have to learn how to capture her attention and how to seduce her mind. Seduction is a mental process, NOT a physical one. Seduce her mind and only then will you seduce her body.

Seduce & Conquer teaches you how to capture every girl's attention and seduce her mentally within a few minutes of speaking to her. You will create a mental connection with every girl you meet!

# 5: Do Not Come On Too Strong

So many guys out there come on way too strong! Women want to want you gentlemen; they don't want you to want them. I know it's crazy but that's the way they think. They can have anyone they want so they're obviously attracted to guys that don't want them. You can never let her know that you want her or are interested in her. She should never know what your intentions are or where you stand.

So many guys are doing great with her until they make the grave mistake of asking her for a number and then she says no. There are many ways of getting her phone number and taking her out but asking her definitely is NOT one of them. Don't come on too strong; let her come after you by being indifferent. The more you go after her, the more she will push you away. When you push her away, she will come after you.

Seduce & Conquer shows you how to make women come after you and chase after you. They will even ask YOU out!

#6: Do Not Give Out Your Phone # and Do Not Ask For Her For Email

What happens every time you ask a girl for her #? She will either give it to you or say "give me yours." Never give your # or email address to women you meet. They WILL NOT call you. If she's interested in you, she will gladly give you her #. If she asks for yours instead, it's because she does not plan on calling you or seeing you ever again and is only taking it to get you off her back. Never make this mistake again! If she says give me yours you say: "sorry, I don't hand out my # to every woman I meet. You have to be very special to get it"

Emails are very easy to get. If you want her email, just say: "hey, you have email?" before you walk away. Women will gladly give you their email addresses but again only because they do not plan on going out with you and are giving it to you to feed their own egos and take what's left of yours. Do not give out your email and do not ask her for her email. Your conversion rates are MUCH higher when you get her # and call her.

Seduce & Conquer teaches you exactly how to get her # and what to say so she gets excited for your call.

#7: Do Not Call Her Too Soon

So many guys get her # and then screw it all up because they either call too soon or call too often. You must wait at least 3 - 5 days until you call her for the first time. This is very important! If you call her too soon, she will think you are too eager and too interested and she will lose interest in YOU. The same goes for if you call her too often. You only call her ONCE and only to set up the date. Create anticipation, create chemistry and show her that you are not that interested. You must make her wait at least 3 - 5 days before you call her and what you say and how you do it, will determine whether or not you get the date.

Seduce & Conquer will teach you exactly how to do it and what to say so she looks forward to your date.

#8: Do Not Get Excited When You Are Around Her or When You Talk To Her

Women have the "sixth sense" when it comes to attraction. They can tell if you want them and how bad you want them by the way you look at them, the way you talk to them, the way you behave around them and the things that you say. Remember, once she realizes you want her, she will lose all interest in you. So your body language, your behavior and what you say to her will determine whether you pick her up or not. It is very important that you act like you are not interested in her.

How Do I Do That?

By picking on her and making fun of her answers.

How Should I Talk To Her?

-- Speak loudly

-- Speak clearly and speak slowly

-- Talk with confidence, have energy and lots of enthusiasm

-- Use the tone of your voice

-- Have confidence, have attitude, be cocky, be funny, be sarcastic & control the conversation

-- Look right into her eyes as you are speaking to her

-- Pick on her and make fun of her the whole time you are speaking to her

-- Tease her and make her laugh

Laughter is the key to her heart and also the key into her sweet little panties!!!

Seduce & Conquer teaches you exactly how to talk and how to act around women. Seduce & Conquer even teaches you how to dress so she's physically attracted to you!

You will learn exactly how to talk to her, what to say, how to make her laugh, how to use the tone of your voice, how to portray confidence, how to have attitude, how to be cocky, how to be funny, and how to be sarcastic.

I will personally teach you how to have all the qualities that every woman wants in a man. Every single woman you meet will want you. I guarantee it!

#9: Do Not Tell Her How You Feel About Her Too Soon

This is one of the biggest mistakes men make with women. Timing is everything when it comes to seduction. You must not tell women how you feel about them when you meet first meet them and you must not tell her how you feel about her too soon in the relationship. You have to learn what women want and how to give it to them gradually so they don't lose interest in you.

How Do I Do That?

-- Do not use pick up lines

-- Do not come on to her

-- Do not give her any compliments

-- Do not tell her how you feel

-- Do not act nervous when you are speaking to her

-- Do not let her know where you stand

-- Do not let her know what your intentions are

-- Do not let her know that you are interested

#10: Show Her That She Is The Lucky 1 to Be With You

So many guys think that they are soooo lucky when they actually begin talking to a beautiful woman. This is why they don't score. You have to show her that she is the lucky one to be talking to you. She is the lucky one if she gets to go out with you. This is very important gentlemen. A woman will chase a man who does not want her and will dump a man who chases after her.

Which guy do you want to be.? The one they chase after or the one who gets dumped?

Seduce & Conquer teaches you how to have the power and how to make women come after you. They will be the ones to pursue you. She will chase after you. She will want you; she will desire you and YOU will finally have the POWER!

The Complete Seduce & Conquer Program has now successfully worked for every single person that has completed it.

"Life is a series of choices gentlemen, the choices you make decide where you end up. Make the right choice"

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