Believe it or not, if you want to find women to fuck for free or girls fucking girls, nothing beats the typical US college. I went to college in California and part of the reason why I decided to go to school in the bay area instead of  Los Angeles, was because I wanted to be very far from my parents. I mean, I grew up with my parents, we are a very traditional family, but I felt suffocated.

Everything I did from junior high all the way to high school was pretty much dictated by my parents. So I just wanted to take a break and thank goodness I got accepted to both the University of California, Los Angeles and the University of California at Berkely. I've always been fascinated about the San Francisco bay area, so I decided to move there for college. Little did I know that I was going to learn quite a lot about not just meeting members of the opposite sex, but life in general.

The whole idea of free fuck finds is nothing new. I mean, like I said, just go to a typical college. There are all sorts of parties that are predicated on the idea that you're going to hook up and there's not going to be any emotional strings attached. I found out fairly early on that guys are actually more emotionally attached after sex than women. Women who are all into the free fuck finds scene have it down to a science.

I met this blonde chick, Juliet, and she was amazing. She was like the typical midwestern corn-fed all-American goddess. She had big tits, had blonde hair like flaxen wool hair, deep blue eyes, great dimples. It seemed like the more I talked to her, the more I was intoxicated by her presence. But it turned out she just wanted to fuck. I mean, she came from Indiana, which is in the Midwest, no surprises there, and she just wanted to let loose.

I guess we connected on that level because we were escaping from our parents, and we were escaping from where we came from. But where I screwed up was that I thought it meant something more. The sex was great, but I thought it meant something more and it really tore me up. I mean, in my first two years in school, I really had a tough time developing any kind of relationship except for physical relationships. And it has fully dawned on me that the whole idea of free fuck finds seems great on paper, but you have to be mentally ready for it.

You also have to make sure that the motivations and intentions are correct. Otherwise, it's probably better not to jump from bed to bed because if you get emotionally burned, it impacts how you see yourself, it impacts your capacity to feel for other people, and it often twists your idea of the separation between physical intimacy, emotional intimacy and spiritual intimacy. Thankfully, in my senior year, I met an amazing British chick named Imelda. But that's another story altogether.