If you tend to be a bit quiet in a crowd and are more inclined to be at your best in one on one interactions, getting that hot date when you’re out and about might not be so easy for you. We checked out Askmen.com and found some very helpful tips.

1) Wear clothes you feel great in

When you’re feeling at ease, you’re more likely to feel confident and comfortable aka ‘At your best’. You’ll still be a quiet guy, but your confidence will show.

2) Hit the right venues

This still isn’t easy, but meeting girls in a club isn’t your style, you’d do better at a cosy pub – provided you can pluck up the courage to start a conversation.

3) Chill out with good friends

Meeting friends of friends is always a possibility, but even if that doesn’t happen, just being with people who know how to bring out the best in you will make you more attractive to the opposite sex. You’re feeling happy and chilled. It makes you look cool!

4) Have a drink or two

Not too many. Just a drink or two, it’ll give you courage without making you obnoxious. Know where to draw the line, but don’t be a party pooper.

5) Know how to keep the conversation going

Asking questions shows that you’re interested in someone’s opinion. Girls love it. Keep a few ideas in mind in case you need them to get the conversation going again.

6) Relax

Yes, the person you just met is female. Now relax. Over-eager attempts to impress will have the opposite effect, so you might as well be yourself.

7) Hit the internet

Many introverts are better online – at least at first. Hit Flirthookup or Xcheaters and take it casual to build your confidence. Practice makes perfect!