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Q. What do you think about a girl proposing to a guy? My bf of 2+ years is sweet and shy and it takes him forever to make a decision about anything. We are facing a situation where we will be living in other countries. I feel like it's now or never! Is it flattering or emasculating for a girl to propose? Thanks! xo

Chic Geek says:

think it's sweet. Most guys would agree. It sounds like something needs to happen in this relationship before the long-distance kicks in. You don't want to wait until he's on another continent to start making plans for your future.

Are you okay with how long he takes to make decisions? Do you think he's ready to take the next step? Maybe he's not sure how you feel about a long-distance relationship. If you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, perhaps it's time to take the plunge and propose.

While many people are against it, I'm all for equal opportunity proposals. What do you think? Is it okay for men to propose?

Gal Pal says:

There are ways to bring up this topic without getting down on one knee yourself. Talk about it! Ask him! Tell him what you want and how important this is for you. If he's shy and quiet, he may be completely in the dark about your feelings on marriage. After you broach the topic, gauge his reaction...and keep a look out for that ring box.

That's it for this week. Happy holidays to all and to all a good night!

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