Xmeeting.com Reviews: Asking for a Second Date

When you find a casual date online, you will obviously want to meet them and go on a date. There are genuine websites like Xmeeting.com where you can easily find someone for a casual date. After you interact with someone, you can ask them out for a date.

During the first date, you get to know the person, make some jokes, dinner and a movie -- it's a classic. Between TV shows, rom-coms, your own personal experience and all your buddies' stories, you feel like you've lived this one a million times.

What really makes the difference, though, is the second date. That's where everything gets a little more serious and you really get to open up (but not too much).

The trick is, should you ask for a second date? Sometimes it's a little hard to read the other person, and it takes two to tango. Tell her that you want to see her again, don't ask. Being assertive is a must in any dating situation, and asking for a second date is no different. So get out there and ask for seconds... and thirds.

Here are a 3 sure-fire ways to get that second date:

1.  Ask her out at the end of the first date for a second date.  When asking her out at the end of the date, be sure to ask her to do something she told you during the date she finds exciting.  For example, if she likes Mexican food, tell her you know the best Mexican restaurant in town and you want to bring her there Tuesday night.  Set that second date up so she doesn’t have time to think about the first date, and so she has something to which to look forward.

2.  Text her or call her the very next day.  Either text her a simple message that says “Had a great time last night . . . Looking forward to the next time.” Or, call her and leave a message and tell her the same thing over the phone. 

3.  Don’t expect sex or force the issue of sex until it's right for both parties.  Take things slow and enjoy getting to know each other.  There are no rules about when to have sex for the first time with a new potential partner.  You’re both adults, and if a woman decides that she doesn’t want to have sex with you for a month, respect her!  Or, if a woman decides she wants to have sex with you on the first date, respect that decision too!   When you do have sex, make sure that the two of you handle it like adults and not like children. 


SourceAsk Men, Your Tango


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