Since its advent, the internet has impacted the way society functions in many different ways. A common use of the internet which is becoming increasingly popular is online dating. There are now many different dating sites offering different kinds of services. Finding love online has become as frequent as the traditional method of flirting.
Flirting whether at the pub or online is not much different. The end result is that you are interested in a person and would like to have some kind of a relationship. If you are guy, you should know that a woman online is the same as that woman you might have met at the pub. Here are a few tips to follow when dating online.
1. Make sure you have a nice profile.
Having a nice profile does not mean that you have to write your whole life story. In fact, it is always nice to leave something about yourself out of your profile so that you can tell the woman when you meet her. The profile has to be interesting but truthful. Women like to know that you are active. Give them something so that they can be interested.
2. Post the most recent picture of yourself.
Just like when you go on a date, you want to look nice. Post the most recent pictures of yourself. You want the mental picture that the woman has of you to be the same as when she sees you.
3. Do not make her think you are only interested in sex
When communicating with her, show that you are interested in her. Read her profile and let her know something about herself that caught your attention. Keep it simple. Make certain that you talk about common interests.
4. Be polite
Show her that you respect her in your conversation. Always ask politely or give compliment where necessary. Do not over do it. Women are not that keen when it comes to nice guys yet sometimes being a gentleman does not hurt.
5. Get to know her first.
Just because you are at an online dating site does not mean that you should ask her out after your first few communications. You should get to know her on a friendly basis before asking for a date. You will know from your conversation when the time is right to as her out.
6. Silence
If you have started corresponding with a woman and notice that she actually isn’t your type, keeping quiet and not responding to her email will make her understand that you are not interested any more.
7. Be confident
Women like confident men. They will notice if you are not confident. Respond to her all her email and do not show any doubt. Confidence is very important even when you meet for the first time.
8. Keep all conversation general
Do not ask personal questions. Even when you go out on a date, dont ask personal questions just to fill in the gaps. Some questions need appropriate timing in order to be asked. Try instead to keep any conversation with regards to your passion or common interests.
9. Meet in a public place
When you actually ask her out for the first time, make sure that you meet in a place where she will be comfortable coming. A public place is ideal for a first date. You want to give her all the assurance possible that you are interested in her and not in her sexy look.
10. Close your online dating site profile after you have started dating
After you have met her and have started dating, close your profile at any online dating site. This will prove to her that you are serious about the relationship. If you keep the profile at the dating site open, she might think that you are not serious or that you are still looking for a mate.
These are ten tips that you can use when dating online. Online dating is not any difference from traditional dating. You have to engage the women so that she knows that you are interested.
