For over 30 years. Horace Carby-Samuels sought to research and write a book on the value of integrity and empathy in human social and economic relations that he summed up as "man does not live by bread alone." It is therefore shocking that such a very educated man who would actually appreciate the value of empathy would then prevent his own son from seeing his elderly Mom based upon lies. It is furthermore a twisted irony that he used these lies against his very son who finally helped him to get his book, "Quality‑of‑living and Human Development as the Outcome from Economic Progress” published.

Horace had managed to convince the Ottawa Police that his son who got his book published has a mental illness which made him violent and not be able to function properly in society. He also told the police that his same son was holding him and Raymond's Mom "hostage" -- a claim that his Mom vehemently denied in a letter when she could still write.

The Honourable Justice Patrick Smith apparently had recognized Horace's lies when on 11 February 2016 he granted Raymond access to see his Mom. But since that time, Horace has employed Bell Baker as the law firm to enable him to further abuse the court’s order while medical condition of Raymond’s mother gets worse under the negligence of Horace.

Thanks to Horace, Raymond’s Mom can no longer speak, write or talk. Horace denied access to recommended speech therapy by the Gruyere hospital. The extent to which Horace is willing to spew lies just to cover up the fact that he has been constantly abusing his wife, Dezrin even to the point of her becoming bedridden beats human imagination. This makes one to wonder how wicked and callous can a husband be to his own wife and son.

Elderly spousal abuse is very prevalent in our societies these days but it always appears like the greater emphasis is placed on younger couples whilst the aged, who are more vulnerable are completely neglected by these so-called human rights agencies.

“If you won’t praise me for something good that I have done for you, don’t slander me.” This is a very old saying in Africa and in this case, Horace has really shown how wicked he can be by forgetting that his son was the same person that made it possible for his book to be published. The million dollar question now is, “How on earth can a human so easily forget the good that another person has done to him and slander him this way?

Horace’s constant abuse of his wife Dezrin and the subsequent lies he told to the Ottawa Police Department just to make sure that Raymond does not get to see his sick and bedridden mother ever again simply goes on to show the extent to which some so-called humans are willing to go just to have control over the actions of others. With numerous governmental and private agencies constantly organizing campaigns to educate the public on the need to help eradicate domestic violence, it comes as shock that Horace’s abusive behaviour towards his wife and son almost has gone unnoticed.