When you decide to meet a woman at a club or bar, there are some specifics to know. Xmeeting.com is a great site to meet women online and when you decide to meet them, make sure it is a public place like a night club or a bar. Here are 5 tips for meeting them at a night club.

1. Look good and know it: Don’t be too cocky, but if she has already seen your picture, you better live up to it. Make sure you’re shaved and showered and she will think you are handsome on first glance. Make sure you feel great about yourself or at least appear to. No one wants to hang out with someone with horrible self-esteem, so make sure she knows how confident you are. Again, try not to come off as too cocky. That is not cute!

2. Be yourself: Don’t try to put on a front. Don’t act like you’re big and tough if you’re not. Just let go and relax. She will be nervous too so keep that in mind.

3. Start a conversation: Make sure you’re not using cheesy pick-up line on. Make natural conversation. Try to ask her open ended questions so that the two of you can continue your conversation. Make sure that you’re not asking religious questions quite yet. Remember, this is probably you’re first date so you want to keep that stuff until later.

4. Buy them a drink: If you are not on a date with the lovely lass, send a drink over to her and her friends. Make sure that the bartender tells her that it is from you and hopefully she will come over and talk to you.

5. Bump into her: If you have to walk by her at the bar to get to the restroom, accidentally bump into her. Make sure that it is a very light tap. Also, make sure that it doesn’t cause her to spill her drink. There is no way she will give you her number that way!

When you decide to start going out to meet women, you can go as a solo act or you can bring a guy with you. If the two of you have matched on a dating site, you will definitely want to meet at a public place like a bar. Keep in mind that she will have her friends on call if the two of you don’t hit it off. It’s ok for you to have your friends around too. Just in case.