Q. The guy I'm with is 27 and has had 46 sex partners. Is this normal? And is it possible he's STD free? He says he is, but I'm not sure I believe him.

A. There is some normalcy in that, yes. But, it's definitely on the high side for certain. Especially if 'sex partners' equal intercourse partners.

Check this out: If, your man started having sex at... 17, and slept with 4.6 women every year since then, he would have arrived at 46 by the time he met you. In other terms, it means if everything was spaced out evenly over the last ten years, he would be bedding a new woman just abut every 2.5 months. Though I assume this wasn't the case unless he's a sex robot on a timer.

Again, regarding, "normal" There are guy who are driven to have a lot of sex. They possess the charm, dedication and discretion that will result in sizable tally. The number doesn't have to speak for itself, but I'd be curious if this man has had any series relationships in the past? Perhaps he did. Perhaps he is a wonderful, faithful serial sexer. I can't answer that.

But I can tell you this: you have every right to investigate his STD status, as he has a every right to question yours. Why not, right? It only takes one grimy penis or icky vagina to catch an STD. The STD wheel of misfortune stops when it stops. Sure, I suppose the more times you spin the wheel more chances you'll win an all expenses unpaid trip to a clinic in Cancun, but it doesn't really work out that way.

Having an STD doesn't equal slut. It equals STD. Get your statuses sorted out to your satisfaction and then move on to next critical part: ensuring you feel like #1 not #47.

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