Relationships: Can still I fix my marriage with another man in my heart? : The Canadian Business Daily

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Relationships: Can still I fix my marriage with another man in my heart?

(GuySpeak.com) -- Q. Can i still fix my marriage when i have another man in my heart?

A. No. Oh, sure, you can mend your marriage and pretend like everything is okay. But there will always be that nagging feeling like you should be with someone else.

You can put a ton of work into your marriage and maybe things will be okay for a while. But it's like plugging a hole in a leaky ship -- the foundation is rusty and unsafe. It's not fair to your husband to be trying to make things work if you are wishing you were with someone else. Would you want him to do that? You wouldn't be giving it everything. Fixing a damaged relationship, be it a marriage or a boyfriend/girlfriend situation, is tough. Right now you're thinking if you just keep telling yourself that you love your husband, it will actually be true. Why do that? Life is short.

Yes, ending your marriage will be hard. But you know that's harder? Staying in an unhappy marriage. The more you deny it, the more you'll want to cheat and make things worse. Your love for his other man will be like a disease that spreads throughout your marriage, infecting everything in your life, no matter how hard you try to suppress it. If you are in love with another man, you owe it to whatever you once had with your husband to move on and let him move on as well.

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